Blogging

So... so may people's blogs are so cute.  Why am i so bloggly challenged?  It's not that hard, but for some reason for me it is!  Why is this?  Why isn't my blog cute?  Why do I have such trouble getting pictures on here? Why can't I do a following, that shows the blogs that I like?  These are things other people have.... why can't I find these things... I guess I'll have to keep trying